What's the point in laying foundation of the house if you want to live in the other one?
There are days when
you come home, take off your shoes and coat, and get to understand: there
should be someone to share
your joys and sorrows , laughter, warmth and weakness. It is better to be happy
together. And it is easier to be miserable together.
Being happy is
easy. But people
are used to complicating things. People want a drama. They are bored
with just sitting at home, drinking coffee and watching TV. Indeed, what is it like to live in the world where there is only Good? Everyone will go crazy:)
It's not sound to have too much of something (it's too good to
be true). That's why we are used to looking
for and eventually getting into troubles.
We find it hard to
understand that when we find the right
person we must be around.What we have to do
is to believe and build. Why put foundation if you want to live in another
house? Everything will work out if people
know exactly what they want. But, they don’t. So, they leave without explaining
why.
Try to understand each other. Don’t run away from problems. Solve them. Don’t shift your eyes, look
right in the eye. Instead of slamming the door, open the closed ones. Show how important in your life the presence of loved
ones is.
Don’t try to convince her that you don't care. Don’t
demonstrate to him that you can do without him. Prove
that the most important for you is to stay together, even if there are
moments when you are not sure of it. Because sooner or later, even in 50 years' time, you might realize how wrong you might have been by putting a defective brick instead
of replacing or even throwing it away.